Phyllis A. Dirks | Obituary

Writer, community volunteer, and matriarch of an extended family Phyllis Adaline Dirks passed away peacefully on April 27 at age 91 in Federal Way, Washington. Phyllis, born on a farm near Wales, North Dakota on December 20, 1930, was the first of five children of Albert and Margaret Amoth.

Phyllis published The Meadowlark’s Song in 2005, a detailed and moving account of her life as a Mennonite child in North Dakota during the Dust Bowl years. The story ends with the family moving to Bonners Ferry, Idaho in 1940. Phyllis said she was unable to answer nearly universal pleas by readers for a second book to continue the story in Idaho because it would have required telling the stories of others, which she didn’t feel she was entitled to do.

Frequent family gatherings for birthdays and holidays were joyous occasions for Phyllis as her house was filled with a cacophony of stories and laughter from her steadily growing family. In between, Phyllis kept in steady contact with her four younger siblings and their families through family letters that have been circulating for more than 30 years, accumulating thousands of pages of family history.

For years Phyllis, a skilled seamstress, made a quilt for every new child born to the family. She also was well known by newspaper editors, including those at the Seattle Post Intelligencer, for her thoughtful letters commenting on political and community affairs. Before universal vote-by-mail was adopted in Washington, Phyllis volunteered as a poll worker for most elections. For years she was the secretary of the Washington State 30th legislative district Democratic Party.

The Christian faith was the pillar of Phyllis’s life, and the center of her social life was the Lutheran Church, starting with Trinity Lutheran Church in Bonners Ferry and continuing at Calvary Lutheran in Federal Way. At Calvary she volunteered for many years to prepare community meals for the area’s homeless population, work which warmed her spirit and gave her a deep understanding of our common humanity.

Until her final months, Phyllis continued to drive and maintain her home in Federal Way, even as declining kidney function made working increasingly difficult. She loved her garden and willingly shared her blueberries and strawberries with avian visitors, as well as feeding flights of hummingbirds throughout the year.

Phyllis was proceeded in passing by her husband Clarence in 1996 and daughter Teryl in 2020. She is survived by son Keith Dirks and wife Sandee, of Tenino; son Jeff Dirks and wife Karla Thomas, of Dhaka, Bangladesh; grandchild Krystie Schueck and husband Rob of Lit- tlerock; grandchild Shannon Hudson and husband Freddie of Hinesville, Georgia; grandchild Bryon Dirks and wife Tiffany of Yelm; grandchild Sara Fassett and husband Jono Anderson of Ferndale; nine great grandchildren, and two great-great grandchildren. Survivors also include her four siblings Norman Amoth, Betty Hofstetter, Victor Amoth, and Ruby Seaman.

A memorial service is at 1 p.m. Saturday, May 21, at Calvary Lutheran Church in Federal Way. A family service in Bonners Ferry is planned for late summer. Please make donations to charity in lieu of flowers.